"Most of Southeast Asia is beautiful, somewhat unregulated, exotic and dirt cheap.".... "It has monsoons, lousy internet and it's hot as hell!"
"Central America is pretty convenient for Americans. It is nearby, has
white sandy beaches and a tropical climate."...."It’s dangerous for gringos, home
to corrupt governments and thanks to a deluge of deep-pocketed American
retirees, it is no longer a cheap place to live."
"Many Caribbean Islands are great tax havens." ...."Good luck
getting a job or a permanent visa."
"Europe is filled with beauty, history and culture. " .... "Bureaucracy is King and everything is regulated to death – even death."
"Australia is pretty much just like the US." .... "It has higher prices
than the US and you have to learn to drive on the wrong side of the road."
"Canada is just Canada."
"And Africa ...well, it’s Africa."
As The Eventual Expat, I always keep my ears open when I
hear someone discussing their experiences overseas. I realize that the word on
the street can be informative yet misleading, but if given the opportunity, I will
pester folks to death with questions about their adventures abroad. Is it a
great place to live? Is it really as inexpensive as they say? Is it true they
have incredibly low taxes? Does everyone really speak English?
But the answer is always the same: “It depends”.
One of the main obstacles when deciding on a country to
expatriate to is that everyone has a different take on what is good and what is
bad. I’m always amazed that someone can be so fond of the same place that
another person hates with a passion.
A writer once told me he spent a few months in London and
enjoyed being left alone. He enjoyed the solitude in the midst of the big city hustle
and bustle. He fell in love with the town and couldn’t wait to go back. But a girl
who had been to London for a year of college abroad told me she cried herself
to sleep many nights out of loneliness. She hated London and said she would
never return. She felt isolated and forgotten amidst the vastness of the city.Some friends of mine vacation in the Dominican Republic for a month each year. They always come home with lots of pictures and interesting stories and souvenirs. They can vacation wherever they wish, but every year they can’t wait to get back down to the DR. But a neighbor of mine was sent to the DR for work. All expenses paid. He spent three months there and couldn’t wait to get back home. He said he was miserable the whole time.
It is becoming easy for me to see that there are as many reasons to expatriate as there are expatriates. Each person has their own vision of life abroad and their own particular expectations of a foreign country.
I must learn to ask better
questions. I’ll be more objective and less subjective. Maybe I can start getting
answers other than “It depends”.